Category: Forgiveness

Forgiveness is hard for me, I’m a Scorpio and I’d rather draw and quarter someone than forgive them.  However, I’ve been along the spiritual block enough times to know that holding on to a grudge or sending angry energy at someone usually just ends up hurting me.  My forgiveness efforts usually start out with my rationalizing why someone did something, then talking myself into believing that they had a good reason for hurting me, so it must be okay.  My mom had a hard life, she didn’t mean to hurt me, so it’s okay.  Although that sounds good on paper, it never ends up working, because then I feel like I’ve sold myself out and feeling worse.

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