What am I looking for in my relationships?
Maker Five tells me I want full transparency and honesty in a relationship. I do not want someone who is hiding anything. I also want someone who is capable of asking for help and doesn’t use passive aggressive tactics to manipulate me. I want someone capable of having an honest conversation about who they are, what they want from a relationship, etc.
Dreamer Two is all about making decisions. I want someone who knows what they want and goes after it. I don’t want someone who is purely a dreamer who thinks up great schemes, but never does the hard work required to make things happen. John had great ideas, but he never had the grit and the gumption to bring them to fruition. I need someone with grit and gumption who will actually follow through.
Maker Two echoes that theme in telling me I want someone who takes responsibility for their life. Who is capable of owning their mistakes and who doesn’t constantly blame others for their sorry state in life.
All of these cards are telling me that I want a grownup and not a little boy.
Cairn by Cairn 