How does my shadow hurt my relationships?
The Dancer tells me that I like to be alone. I like to dance alone, I like to just be alone. It is hard for me to be part of a group as my normal state of being is aloneness. This is a card of healing and love, but for me that is healing myself and not healing the world.
Warrior three tells me that sometimes everything in my life is performance art. I show up because I have to instead of because I really want to. This works well at work where I get paid to show up and basically tell a story, but it doesn’t work as well in my personal life because it keeps me from forming the real and intimate connections that I crave. This is supposed to be a card of collaboration, but for me it speaks to people working alone.
Maker King tells me that I intimidate people. This may be because I am skilled at what I do, but could also be because I give off a vibe that I’m not interested in hearing other people’s opinions. I like to be the king and I like to think that my skills are so special that no one could improve them. Interestingly, I’ve been getting an education in learning to sell lately as I’ve had to put material together for our sales team and every time I do it, it gets a little bit better, but I’m not quite there it. I have to be honest and say that this is literally one of the hardest things that I’ve ever had to do.
Cairn by Cairn 